People my age will be among the last to
have personal memories of the Kennedy assassination.
I was in fifth grade in Stoneman Elementary School
in San Marino, California, which in
those days was so conservative that the John Birch Society was suspected of
having leftist sympathies. We were not only Democrats, but also named Talovich,
so obviously we were dirty Russian commies: case proved. Fortunately, I was too
dense to take much notice of this. (San Marino in those days was lily
white, populated by good solid Republicans with good solid names like Smith,
Taylor, Hunter, Miller, and for variety Vosburg. The racial minority at
Stoneman was a Jewish family trying to pass under the name Bloom, and then the
Yugovich twins, Eddy Godycki, and Talovich. The Yugoviches were of course
highly suspicious, but at least they voted Republican, and although Eddy
Godycki was a Democrat, and clearly a dirty Rusky commie, he also kept up on
all the latest television shows, which removed a bit of suspicion about his
loyalty, but the Taloviches read books instead of watching television, which
proved that we were dirty Rusky commies.)
That day we were in class when the
principal came in, whispered something to the teacher, and then both of them
turned and gave me a long look. My immediate reaction was, Uh-oh, what’s my
brother done now? Years later I realized they looked at me because I was the highly
suspicious Democrat.
A few minutes later, a public announcement
was made that John F Kennedy, the President of the United
States, had been assassinated in Dallas, Texas.
We were let out of class, and all the students milled about on the playground
in confusion. We had never had a President assassinated before, and didn’t know
what we should do. A kid came over with the news, “Eddie Godycki’s crying!” For
a moment we were all stunned by the shame of a boy crying in public, and the
next moment, every kid on the whole playground was crying, tears streaming down
our faces, our tribute to our fallen President.
Amitabha, rest in peace.